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An interview series curating how style leaders interpret the art of rest – from textures and tones to the rituals that define their personal retreat.
There is an ease to the way Lorinska Merrington moves between worlds – one that is shared, vibrant and outward-facing, and another that remains quietly her own. Known for her candid approach to motherhood and her deeply engaged community, the star of Netflix’s Yummy Mummies has built a presence grounded in authenticity, where connection is valued over perfection. Yet behind the rhythm of family life and digital storytelling lies a desire for calm – a space to retreat, reset and return to herself.
In this special Mother’s Day Edition of The Art of Rest, Lorinska invites us into her bedroom sanctuary – a softly layered, light-filled haven anchored by her Heatherly Genevieve bed – and reflects on the evolving nature of rest, the rituals that shape her days, and the importance of creating a space that feels entirely her own.
How do you navigate the balance between showing up visibly online and carving out space that feels entirely your own?
I’ve always been quite used to living publicly and privately at the same time. I share a lot of motherhood and daily life, but there are parts of our home that stay just ours. You’ll very rarely see my full home online, and I wouldn’t do a full home tour I think some spaces are meant to stay personal.
What feeling did you want to come home to in your bedroom at the end of the day and how does your Heatherly bed shape that experience?
My bedroom is really the only space in the house that’s completely mine. I’m naturally very drawn to colour and personality in the rest of the home. I love old pieces, auction finds, and rooms that feel lived in, but in my bedroom I wanted the opposite. I wanted calm, softness and light. Mostly creams, chocolates, very layered and gentle.
It’s funny, even the kids know it’s my space now their friends aren’t allowed in anymore. The Heatherly Genevieve bed really anchors that feeling. It makes the whole room feel settled and restful.
How has your idea of rest evolved since becoming a mother?
Rest looks very different now. It’s definitely not long uninterrupted stretches anymore. For me it’s those small quiet moments once everyone’s asleep – a cup of tea and a bit of reality TV feels like a real reset. I’ve learned to appreciate those little pockets of time so much more.
Are there particular rituals that help you reset and come back to yourself?
Routine helps me a lot. I’m usually in bed by about 8:30 or 9pm because I’m up early for the gym, sauna and steam before the day starts with the kids. I also love opening the windows in the bedroom and keeping the space feeling fresh and calm. Those small rituals make a big difference.
What does your bedroom represent for you, beyond sleep?
It’s my retreat. The house is busy and full of energy, but the bedroom is where I can step away from everything and reset. It’s one of the few spaces that feels entirely mine, and that’s very important as a mother.
How do you protect your energy and boundaries while still maintaining connection with your community?
I try to stay very open and honest online, but I only share what feels real or helpful. People connect with authenticity, not perfection. I also make a point of replying to messages when I can. People are often surprised when I respond, but I think that connection matters. At the same time, I’m careful to keep certain parts of life private so I can protect my energy.
If your current season of life could be reflected in your bedroom, what would it say about what matters most right now?
It reflects a season of building. We have family life, creative projects and exciting things on the horizon, but I wanted the bedroom to stay calm through all of that. It’s a space that keeps me grounded while everything else is growing.
